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There is nothing quite like adding bondage play into your sex life. The sensation of being restrained or retraining someone else is unlike anything you can imagine, and once you dip your toe into the world of bondage its hard to step back out.

The great thing about bondage is that it’s suitable for everyone. Whether you’re a newbie looking to try it out for the first time or an aficionado that regularly enjoys bondage in the bedroom, there really is something for everyone. You can try different positions, add all sorts of toys and gear into the equation, while also having the chance to switch up roles from dominating to submissive. Simply put, bondage is amazing and we highly recommend you try it out!

Here are some handy bondage tips that anyone can enjoy!

Talk About What You’d Like to Try

A big part of bondage is power roles between the dominant and the submissive. This process must always be consensual, which is why you want to talk about you’d like to try and where your boundaries are set. You don’t even try to introduce these roles when playing with bondage, although it’s always going to be there to some extent - the person being bound is typically a sub, although the fact their boundaries must be respected could also see them as a dom too, so it’s all a matter of perspective. In any case, always talk with a partner before trying bondage. Talk about what you want to try, what your kinks are and what you enjoy, as well as the things you aren’t interesting in trying. It could be oral sex, spanking, spitting, dirty talk, or a slow and sensual massage - discuss what you’d like to try most! Learning what turns the other person on and what their boundaries are is one of the best parts of bondage - and it occurs before a single restraint is involved!

Dirty Talk Works Well

As we mentioned, bondage isn’t just about getting tied up, as there are all types of sexual activities that can take place during bondage. One of the best examples of this is to try out some dirty talk as you are being tied or tying someone up. For example, if you like being the submissive partner then you can say as much, calling yourself naughty, bad girl, begging for forgiveness etc. Dirty talk doesn’t need to be BDSM themed during bondage but its often a fine addition when done in this way. Regardless, dirty talk gives both people the chance to talk about their desires and pleasures during bondage play. You can create hot fantasies you’ve always wanted and really build up the anticipation of bondage without even using a restraint.  

Blindfolds Work Too

Much like dirty talk blindfolds are a fine addition to some bondage play. By adding sensory deprivation to the play, the person being tied and blindfolded can be teased and stimulated to the point of a sensory overload - its quite the experience and one well worth trying. Bondage and blindfolds don’t even require touching. Simply whispering into the ear of the restrained partner can build a tantalising amount of tension, then upping the ante with some soft kissing and ticking will result in one almighty climax - or possibly several! Take 5 minutes to browse through our collection of blindfolds >>

Massage Candles have a few uses

Massage candles are a great way to create the perfect ambience for some sensual bondage play, but they can also be used for temperature play, although it’s a good idea to get candles suitable for such activities. For instance, you can alternate between hot and cold sensations using candle wax and ice to on the restrained individual, with things feeling even more intense when blindfolded. Drizzling wax onto a partner is incredible arousing for both people, just make sure you don’t use ordinary candle wax as this is usually too warm for most people. Check out some of our own low-temperature burning candles that are perfect for bondage adventures!

Do Some Homework

As restraints are the cornerstone of all bondage activities, it’s a good idea to do some homework to get an idea of the types of knots to tie and what positions you can try out with restraints. Basic knots are fine for most people - there’s no need to go for anything overly fancy. In fact, it could be argued that knowing your knots is more important for understanding how to quickly untie them should someone start to feel sore or uncomfortable. Take a closer look through our completre bondage collection >>

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