Guys - send this one straight to the printer and keep that paper in your wallet for future reference because we’re about to list the best tips for impressing your girlfriend, fiancé or wife. No, we’re not about to tell you to buy her expensive lingerie or write poems, in fact, we’re confident that if you follow these rules on a regular basis, that she’ll be the one buying lingerie to wear for YOU:
She’s clearly in a bad mood and possibly being snarky with you or worse. You probably come to the conclusion that it is ‘that time of the month’ or you feel inclined to tell her to ‘relax’ or ‘calm down’. For the love of god – DON’T! When your partner is showing signs of PMS, regardless of whether or not it may actually be that time of the month, the last thing a woman needs is an immature reminder of how much it sucks. And – telling her to relax or calm down? We guarantee that will cause the exact opposite reaction.
Instead, make sure to tread carefully and try asking her how her day was and actually LISTEN TO THE RESPONSE so you can continue the conversation by engaging with her. Sounds simple but you would be surprised how much a woman appreciates her partner paying attention to her and genuinely taking an interest in her day and what has upset her.
WARNING: This tip is aimed at males who haven’t actually done anything to anger their partner, if you are the reason she is angry in the first place, you’re on your own because this probably won’t work...
• Sometimes the littlest things can make a world of a difference to her... take note...
Keep it Simple:
• You know that thing your mother said to you? - It was rude. I completely agree with you.
• Call when you say you will, be where you say you will be, do what you say you will do. - Enough said.
• Know the difference between opinion and fact - And NO, your opinion is not a fact.
• Make a Decision. - Wishy-washy is not decisive. Decisive is secure. Women like secure.
Guys, this is such a big one. Let's first discuss what is not acting like an adult. Basically, it's doing anything a 13-year-old girl would do. This includes, but is not limited to: ignoring texts, ending texts with "!!!" or "?!” or throwing tantrums, calling names and making statements to which "I know you are, but what am I?" could be accurately applied.
You’re an Adult, Act like One:
You know you do it, so stop and perhaps think ‘would George Clooney finalise a text message argument with: whatever!’? Or ‘would Brad tell Angelina she’s wrong because I said so’? We’re thinking not.
So there you have it: simple rules to live by to keep the peace and leave much more time for love and the fun stuff that comes with it, rather than having various kitchen utensils thrown at your head. Good Luck!